What is Coaching?
Coaching is helping to bridge the gap between where you are in your life now, and where you want your life to be. Because at some point you have to stop living the life you’ve fallen into and start living the life you want. It’s learning to become the authentic you. It’s learning how to fully express oneself in all aspects of life—personally and professionally. It’s learning how to have it all on your own terms. It’s learning how to balance your personal, professional, financial, spiritual, physical, and emotional parts of your life so that you master a feeling of wholeness within you. It’s about living the life you were meant to lead, not just existing and drifting day to day. It’s about fully realizing your potential, living with passion and purpose, with the outcome being your definition of success.
What Do Coaches Do?
Coaches work in the present, helping you to discover what you need to do in order to move towards the future you want for yourself. Coaching is about calling forth the human spirit. Coaches help clients and organizations explore their goals, challenges, visions, strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats. Coaches help individuals and companies get past drama and quick fix-it quarter-by-quarter solutions and help them develop lasting change through a transformational process which places them into a strength position of choice and opportunity.
Coaches also help organizations redefine their culture and be sure their core values are in line with their vision. Coaches help organizations explore opportunities, decisions, actions, and use perspective to guide management, individuals, and teams to make the best choice possible.
Coaches shine the flashlight in the dark corners of your being, while you search inside yourself to find the answers. They listen intently and actively to hear what you are saying, and perhaps more importantly, what you’re not saying. Like detectives, they help you uncover hidden obstacles, beliefs, feelings, commitments, that often cloud your vision and prohibit you from achieving all that you want in your life. Coaching is a process of discovery, accessing potential, focusing on the future, and closing the gap between the life you know and the life you so richly deserve.
Why Do People Want Coaching?
- When you feel stuck in any aspect of your life.
- When you feel like no one really listens to you.
- When you keep falling short of your goals.
- When you want to move forward, but find yourself always falling three steps backward.
- When you finally feel as though you have hit the wall of life.
- When you work so hard to make everyone else’s world a better place that you leave very little time or effort for your own aspirations.
- When you feel like you need balance in your life, but feel like there are too many responsibilities to juggle all at once.
When most people think of a coach, they think what sport? Or if you’re an arts fan, you know that people hire voice coaches to become better singers and acting coaches to become better actors. But, who’s got the life playbook? Who’s out there suggesting what’s the best life path? How many parents have asked, where’s the rule book for this? What play should I call? True coaching whether in life or business is simply helping people to bridge the gap between life as it is verses the life as you dream it.
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